To Mend Your Shattered Heart

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 To Mend Your Shattered Heart


Recognize that your heart - in pieces - can still love.

Surround yourself and the other in love.

Without attacking, be honest about your emotions.

“Attacking” can just result in the other being defensive.

Instead ask for help with your anger, your sadness.

Ask this from the other with love.

Without attacking, say “I am angry when you ______. Can you help me with my anger?”

There can be no more committed heart than one that has been broken, and yet continues to love. As the Course on Miracles states “Love is the answer whatever the question.”

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